Advice columnist R. Eric Thomas advises a couple on how to handle a friend who uses their pool without reciprocating

Anchorage Daily News

Asking Eric: I think my friend is using me for access to my pool Sep 18 at 4:15 AM

Chicago Tribune

Asking Eric: I feel that we are being used Sep 17 at 8:01 PM

South Florida Sun Sentinel

Asking Eric: She’s mad at me? She’s the one who let our friendship fade. Sep 18 at 3:03 AM

The Denver Post

Asking Eric: Friend uses couple for their pool Sep 17 at 9:00 PM

The Mercury News

Asking Eric: She’s mad at me? She’s the one who let our friendship fade. Sep 17 at 10:27 PM

The Oregonian

Asking Eric: I'm not sure I want to reconnect with a friend who's mad we didn't stay close Sep 18 at 5:00 AM

Asking Eric: I need to be direct to friend who takes advantage of us. But how do I start? Sep 18 at 5:00 AM

Asking Eric: My former roommate is hurt our friendship changed - but I'm just confused Sep 18 at 5:00 AM

Asking Eric: Am I being used by friend who never brings a towel to our pool or thanks us for the visit? Sep 18 at 5:00 AM

Asking Eric: I have the feeling our friend only likes us for our pool. What should I say to him? Sep 18 at 5:00 AM

Asking Eric: One former roomie stays in touch. The other lives on my block, but doesn’t make any effort Sep 18 at 5:00 AM