Advice columnist Annie Lane provides guidance to a woman struggling to balance holiday expectations between her and her husband's families

Anchorage Daily News

Dear Annie: Trying to keep everyone happy on holidays is starting to damage my marriage Oct 13 at 4:17 AM

The Oregonian

Dear Annie: He doesn't want 'labels,' but I can't tell if he's really into me or not Oct 13 at 11:00 AM

Dear Annie: He's so wonderful when we're together. But then he just ... disappears Oct 13 at 11:00 AM

Dear Annie: Every holiday feels like a negotiation, rather than a celebration, between our 2 families Oct 13 at 11:00 AM

Dear Annie: Is he my boyfriend, or is he just keeping me on the hook? Oct 13 at 11:00 AM

Dear Annie: Family holiday ‘tug-of-war’ is ruining experience for everyone. How do we make it stop? Oct 13 at 11:00 AM

Dear Annie: My husband is hurt that my family gets priority at holidays simply because they live closer Oct 13 at 11:00 AM

The Spokesman-Review

Dear Annie: Shoplifting in front of kids seen Oct 13 at 8:09 PM